Sunday, June 28, 2020

My crush,Your crush,Our crush

We all know who a crush is right?😍

    That special person😘 who gives you butterflies and makes your heart beat faster. A person  that you can’t describe in a word, but multiple words. A person you can’t get off your mind.

   Have we ever notice that we tend to crush on people we know we can never be with.We tend to have weird and sometimes impossible imaginations about our crush.

 What does it feel like to have a crush?

If you feel strange around your crush, you're not alone. That's how most people feel around their crush. You might feel shy or giddy or maybe even shy and giddy all at once! Some people can't remember what they want to say when they see their crush. They feel speechless,tongue-tied while some just misbehave.

Some people tends to smile stupidly, call them on the phone, or tease them to get attention,silly right? 😜 This might make a person feel uncomfortable. Have you ever felt this way? It can be hard to control how you feel, but the rules of good behavior still apply. If your crush doesn't want to talk with you or it seems like you're making the person uncomfortable, it's time to back off.

Likewise, never let anyone behave in a way that makes you feel funny or uncomfortable. It's never OK for anyone  a kid or a grown-up to do or ask things of you that don't feel right. That's not a good crush. It's a very bad crush πŸ˜’.

 Some of us tend to be in a committed crush relationship.I call it "singly committed relationship"where my crush might not even know I exist or know if I like him at all.

 If I have a crush,what do I do?

When you develop special feelings toward someone, it can change your world. You might want to spend most of your time with the person, tell them everything about yourself and do almost anything for the person, we have all experienced something like this even me 😏. 

You might or might not want to tell other people who your crush is. It can be fun to talk with friends about it, but sometimes our friends tease us about our crush. Getting teased is never fun, so if you know about other's crush just t may not seem like puppy loveπŸ•. 

 What if someone breaks my heart?

When you have a crush on someone and you find out that he or she likes you, too, it's a wonderful feeling. But sometimes it doesn't work out that way. It's hard to find out that the person you like doesn't feel the same way about you. You might feel sad,☹️ disappointed, and rejected😒. That sad feeling is called heartbreak, even though your heart isn't really breaking into pieces. If you feel heartbroken πŸ’”those feelings can last for a while, you might even break down and cry,or feel worthless but don't worry you will get over it.πŸ˜‰

Another word about heartbreak: Try to be kind if you're on the other end of a crush  when someone likes you. It's a compliment when someone thinks you're special. If you don't feel the same way, try to tell him or her in a nice way.πŸ˜‰
Crushes are new and exciting, so enjoy them while they last.πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

 I will like to ask some questions,and I will really appreciate it if you give your opinions.We want it to be interactive right?
    My first question, why is it that some girls don't accept their crush if they eventually asks them out?πŸ€”
   Since a girl likes her crush why can't she just approach her crush?πŸ€”
   Guys too when you notice that a girl is giving you green light and you like her why can't you just approach her?πŸ˜’.Una sabi fall person hands shaπŸ™„

21 comments:

  1. Na una girls fall hand pass o. Abeg

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  2. My answer to your last question could be one of the following:
    - the guy can actually be the shy type and not bold enough to express his feelings
    - He is not ready to jump into a relationship yet
    - it could be also that he is in a committed relationship with another lady
    - Inferiority could be an issue too

    My thoughts tho

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  3. Sometimes asking them out is not the problem,but the fear of heart"No"

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    1. There is no harm in trying you know..
      You just don't Have to expect much. This is where emotional intelligence (it's not easy tho) comes in.

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    2. And some girls can be so mean,that when you approach them the manner at which they treat you can kill your self worth.

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  4. Answer to question one: Some ladies don't accept the guy they crush on if he probably come to express his crush-like feelings because not every crush is sincerely genuine and reasonable. Some ladies' crush some times is as results of material things or qualities which they know truly that it's ephemeral.

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  5. Answer to question two. Initially, it's not a normal tradition for a lady to approach a guy but it actually happens anyway. In order not to be heartly traumatized in case their crush say no to them, they kindly maintain their dignity and Worth by avoiding the act of going to their crush. Of course to me, it is an emotional maturity.

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  6. Last question's answer: Most guys most times neglect the signal of interest(love) a lady shows to them because they don't wish to have anything to with her and her entirety.

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  7. UnknownJune 29, 2020 at 5:04 AM
    Last question's answer: Most guys most times neglect the signal of interest(love) a lady shows to them because they don't wish to have anything to do with her and her entirety

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    1. 'And you like her'.. was also in the question.. read it well again

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  8. Wow.Am really impressed. Good jobπŸ‘

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